As a medically-transitioned non-binary person, this piece was emotional for me to write. Thank you for setting aside time to empathize, resonate, and act. Your understanding and support are essential for the inclusive future of work. 

There are at least 2 million transgender and 1.2 million nonbinary people in the US, and 3 out of every 10 adults in the U.S. now know someone who is trans. 

Organizations work to decrease burnout, increase engagement, boost productivity, foster psychological safety, and improve well-being. We have myriad policies, procedures, and programs to address organizational goals, but how many specifically include the distinct needs of transgender team members? 

Continue reading to take the first important step in supporting trans employees. Educate yourself.

Language matters

Without a shared vocabulary, it’s hard to relate to the transgender experience so you can TRANS-form. Here are several terms needed for this piece.

• Transgender/ Trans: An umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or expression differs from cultural expectations based on their sex.
• Non-Binary: A person who does not identify solely as a man or a woman, but may identify as both, as a combination, and/or as another gender. Many also identify as transgender, but some don’t. Non-binary can also be an umbrella term encompassing identities such as agender, bigender, genderqueer, or gender-fluid.
• NGC/GNC: (Non-gender conforming) refers to people whose behavior doesn’t conform to traditional or societal expectations of their gender. It also includes people whose gender expression does not fit neatly into any one category or may be fluid.
• Cisgender/Cis: A person whose gender identity aligns with what is expected of them in their culture based on the sex assigned to them at birth. 
  

It’s already harder to be transgender

Recent studies underscore the importance of acknowledging and addressing the mental health disparities faced by the transgender community. Transgender individuals encounter higher levels of psychological stress due to societal stigma, discrimination, and lack of access to affirming healthcare, which significantly impacts their mental well-being:

• 58% of transgender adults report having a mental health condition versus 13.6% of cisgender adults
• 46% of transgender adults report having a mood disorder versus 9% of cisgender adults
• 31% of transgender adults report having an anxiety disorder versus 6% of cisgender adults
• 31% of transgender adults report having a major depressive disorder versus 4.8% of cisgender adults
  

The last few years made things even worse 

President Biden signed a landmark 2020 Supreme Court ruling protecting LGBTQ+ people from workplace discrimination, and a few states have begun enacting their own pro-trans laws. But those efforts are not enough. 

In 2022, 47% of trans people considered moving to another state because their government considered or passed laws that target transgender people for unequal treatment—such as banning access to bathrooms, healthcare, or sports. Additionally, 5% moved out of state.

Only 15 states and D.C. currently rank as being safe for trans people, with 29 states ranking low or extremely low for transgender safety. In June 2023, the Supreme Court even ruled that a business could refuse to design websites for same-sex couples’ weddings. 

As of March 2024, there are a record 527 anti-trans bills under consideration that seek to block trans people from receiving basic healthcare, education, legal recognition, and the right to exist publicly. 

There are still many dangerous and confusing roadblocks to transgender rights and safety, yet we persist with remarkable awareness and strength. Recognizing the unique challenges faced by this community is a critical step toward building a more equitable and supportive workplace.

Underrepresented, underemployed, underpaid

Statistics in these sections come from the 2015 and 2022 U.S. Transgender Survey Reports, this BRFSS survey, and this study. Given recent anti-trans legislation, these numbers are likely even higher now.

• 50% of transgender respondents said they could not be their full selves during the job application process, versus 33% of cisgender 
• Transgender people are 2x more likely to be unemployed than cisgender adults and 1.7x more likely to be recently unemployed
• 42% more transgender employees work part-time than cisgender employees, meaning less access to healthcare benefits
• Cisgender employees make 32% more money annually than transgender employees, even with similar or higher education levels
  

Unsafe at work

• 59% of trans employees fear for their safety at work 
• Over 50% are not comfortable being out at work
• 27% were fired, forced to resign, not hired, or denied a promotion due to gender identity
• 15% were verbally harassed, physically attacked, or sexually assaulted at work in 2015 because of their transgender status
• 30% were verbally attacked because of their transgender status
• 47% experienced at least some discriminatory behavior daily at work, such as being the target of transphobic remarks, being ignored, or being pressured to act in “traditionally gendered” ways
  

People leaders: you need trans people

Despite the challenges transgender individuals face at work, they report showing up and being allies of other marginalized groups, such as women and people of color. 

In the face of adversity, the transgender community displays incredible resilience and strength. Stories of perseverance, community support, and successful advocacy for rights and recognition are a testament to the indomitable work ethic and spirit of transgender individuals.

The trans journeys of self-discovery and advocacy drive individual and organizational productivity and progress toward greater acceptance and equality. Celebrating this resilience is not just about acknowledging the struggles—it’s about recognizing the courage, determination, and contributions of transgender individuals to our communities and workplaces. 

Transgender and LGBTQ+ individuals bring unique skills to the workplace that can significantly contribute to success. Here are just a few:

• Resilience and adaptability: Facing and overcoming discrimination or bias requires considerable resilience and adaptability. This equips trans employees with emotional intelligence and problem-solving skills essential for team innovation and creativity.
• Advanced communication skills: Trans people develop advanced communication skills required for enhanced collaboration, such as the ability to listen actively, express empathy, and convey complex ideas sensitively and inclusively when navigating personal and professional spaces. 
• Global perspective and cultural competency: Diverse backgrounds, coupled with experience navigating cultural norms and biases, grant trans people a global perspective and cultural competencies. This enables companies to connect with varied consumer bases and international partners.
• Change management: Trans people often advocate for themselves and others, which can translate into exceptional change management skills. These skills help them contribute to or lead initiatives that require shifts in corporate culture, policy, or strategy.
  

In valuing this community’s distinct experiences and perspectives, companies can foster diversity, drive innovation, and enhance competitiveness, ultimately leading to growth and improved team dynamics. But we need support.

People leaders: trans people need you

Studies show that trans people feel far less supported at work, especially by their managers. They can find understanding culture and benefits difficult and face obstacles in career advancement. 

Transgender employees are at least three times more likely than cisgender employees to delay or skip meetings. 55% say they do not speak up in meetings, and 41% avoid talking to their colleagues altogether. 

Still, the specific struggles faced by transgender employees frequently go unaddressed, even in diversity, equity, and inclusion initiatives. 

It’s time to start recognizing and supporting the mental health and well-being of trans team members so we can all benefit. By championing transgender rights and safety in our company policies and programs and our daily work lives, we advocate for a better workplace for all.

Trans-forming support

Trans people need mental health support. It’s been reported that to feel most resilient, transgender people specifically need to feel connected to community.

Here are several simple yet powerful practices your organization can implement to be more trans-inclusive:

• Inclusive meeting practices: Start meetings with quick introductions that include pronouns, normalizing the practice for everyone
• Visibility efforts: Regularly feature stories or achievements of transgender individuals in internal newsletters or bulletin boards to educate and highlight representative role models
• Representation in decision-making: Ensure transgender employees are represented in committees or decision-making bodies that affect company culture and policies
• Policy feedback loop: Establish a regular feedback mechanism where transgender employees can safely express their thoughts on workplace policies and their direct impact
  

A better future for transgendered people at work

It’s essential for leaders to recognize and support the significant transgender population that deals with systemic barriers to employment, work performance, and career advancement. We’re strong enough to keep working individually and progressing collectively, and our contributions are valuable and deserve recognition. 

Being transgender and/or non-binary must be not just accepted, but celebrated for the diversity of thought, experience, and perspective it brings. Let’s commit to continuous learning, open dialogue, and the implementation of policies that recognize and address the specific needs of transgender and non-binary employees.

Together, we can trans-form work so every individual, regardless of identity, feels valued, supported, and empowered to reach their full potential. 

Let this be a call to action for all of us to build a more equitable, compassionate workplace. We all have a role in shaping a better, more inclusive future.

If you’re passionate about an inclusive future of work, reach out to me, and together we can make it happen! hello@kali.love

And check out my last articles on Why Lead Like a Woman? and How to Support Women at work.

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PROTECT & UPLIFT WOMEN & WOMENS’ VOICES!

I am tired of thinking our daughters need to be “tougher.” While I want them to have grit, I have personally struggled to allow for balancing softness in this difficult era. 

My story, like that of many women, is marked by battles fought both in the shadows and in the glaring light of day.

My childhood—a time that should have been filled with laughter and learning—was overshadowed by trauma. My experiences at the hands of men, both as a child and an adult, are sadly not unique. They are shared by countless women who navigate a world where their safety and dignity are constantly under threat. Yet, it is through sharing these stories that we find common ground, strength, and the courage to demand change.

• At our current rate it would take approx. 131 years to close the gender gap
• Women make up over 50% of the workforce, yet only hold about a quarter of leadership roles
• Nearly 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced sexual violence in their lifetime. (And that’s just what’s reported!)
  

Violence against women is a terrible manifestation of gender inequality. This isn’t just a personal issue but a global pandemic that stifles women’s potential, damages our communities, and fuels cycles of violence instead of cycles of virtue. 

As a survivor, I’ve seen firsthand how violence and the threat of it can shape a life. My story of constant overcoming serves not just as a testament to personal resilience but as a call to action. The trauma I endured, while deeply personal, is also a reflection of the broader societal failure to protect and uplift women.

My journey from trauma to triumph mirrors the larger narrative of women worldwide striving for a future where our daughters can live without fear, pursue their dreams without barriers, and be valued not just for their resilience in the face of adversity but for their contributions to our world.

BUT WHAT CAN WE ACTUALLY DO TO PROTECT & UPLIFT WOMEN? 

Here are some ideas to increase cycles of virtue instead of violence:

1. Teach & learn from each other & from the next generations. Engage in conversations about gender equality, respect, & human rights with each other & with children. Challenge gender stereotypes & encourage acceptance.
2. Listen to & support survivors. We have thought a lot about how to create a safer world. Ask us about it, learn about our struggles & ideas, & help us create needed change in our personal lives, businesses, & communities. 
3. Befriend & empower female entrepreneurs. Men create strong networks & talk with one another about politics & finances. Men mentor one another to become more powerful. It’s time women start doing these things too. 
4. Support what women say & do. Show appreciation to the women in your life through simple acts of kindness & specific gratitude. Don’t just say, “Your hair looks nice today.” Say, “I agree with your (her) powerful stance on this issue, & I applaud your (her) courage in bringing it up. How can I help?”
5. Be an ally. Recognize your privilege. Educate yourself on consent, tell other men about it, & call out repressive behavior & discrimination when you see it. Create inclusive environments that are safe for women, support women-owned businesses, & do the damn dishes so we can advance in our careers too! 
   

Today, let’s celebrate the strides made by women worldwide but also buckle down for the ongoing battle. Let us take today to not only recognize the achievements of women around the world but to recommit ourselves to the work that lies ahead. Let our actions be guided by compassion, our policies be shaped by equity, and our societies be strengthened by diversity and inclusion.

In the face of adversity, let us remember: we are not alone. Together, we can build a world where gender parity is not a distant dream but a lived reality, and violence against women is relegated to the pages of history.

Please. Let’s join together now and always to 

PROTECT & UPLIFT WOMEN & WOMENS’ VOICES!

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